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What You Chose Instead

What You Chose Instead

RYDER EUBANKS

(PDF - full ebook + note from author)

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deblur Clarity: Cuts through mental noise so you see your goals with precision

sprint Discipline: Trains your mind to act

center_focus_strong Focus: Locks you on what actually matters

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What Is This All About

What You Chose Instead is an ebook about the violent truth of why you're not where you want to be. (You chose something else. Every single time.)

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Will This Actually Help Me

The book will give you the framework. Whether it helps depends entirely on whether you use it. The content doesn't work by being read, it works by being applied. If you're looking for transformation through consumption rather than action, you've already chosen what you chose instead.

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Why not give it away for free

When something costs you nothing, it demands nothing from you. When you exchange money for it, you've already made a choice. You've already started the process the book is about. The price creates the commitment that free content can't.

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What's the main takeaway

Stop choosing what's easy now if you want what's extraordinary later. Your future self is already paying the price for your present comfort. The book shows you how to reverse that transaction.

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What makes this different from other self-help books

Most books tell you what to think. This one shows you how to execute when thinking becomes a trap. There's no inspiration here. There's only the architecture of relentless forward motion.

The book operates on the premise that enjoyment is often the enemy of extraordinary results. While others teach you to "follow your passion," this teaches you to follow your resistance, because that's your compass to what matters.

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WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING:

ⓘ Please note that these reviews are based on engagement with excerpted content and core principles from the book, rather than the complete published work. ⓘ
  • ★★★★★

    I really needed this 😍 Thank you.

    Tasty_Car9985

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    Can you send me this every single morning? I might need that

    AnaF99

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    Thats so real bro i just think sometimes im not ready idk what to do with myself but really im ready but i cant start it because im delaying it

    Miserable_Living_119

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    I hate every sentence in this post. Why? Because all of it is true. It describes the last 40 years of my life.

    DamnYouMoody

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    Thank you, I really needed this! 🙏🙏🙏

    Mylilsha

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    Why do I feel so exposed right now 👀

    littleT_mon

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    Darn it. I had no idea about this and it makes perfect sense to me. I’ve got things to do.

    phlspecial

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    This one hits

    Valar_Kinetics

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    Beautifully composed and stringed together. Nice job!! 💯💯✊🏻

    DivineDreamer24

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    Guilty!

    thethrowawaythrowway

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    Whew. Real.

    randomchick1018

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    Word!

    statistician_James

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    I feel exposed

    Key-Hyena5292

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    This is going on get framed and hung in my office. So true and hits so hard.

    abetsfit

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    This was a wakeup call for sure

    hayli_ang

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    this makes me be more motivated

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    This is great advice.

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    this hits hard

    8limb5

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    This hits surgically because it exposes the exact shadow our mind hides behind.

    daydreamer0101

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    Amazing information

    Pucci800

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    Wow this exactly what I needed to hear right now. Creating 50 pages of plans and goals but too scared to actually start the business. I guess it’s time.

    goosehomeagain

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    I can 100% relate to this. I have noticed this with myself as well.

    Quite_Observer_3

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    Nicely put.

    EARTHB-24

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    💯

    Global_Status455

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    Well said. There's a huge difference between being in motion vs taking action

    Mycumisorange

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    Making me superstitious, just what I needed to hear..

    punikagranger

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    Well thanks for calling me out like that. My executive dysfunction is my biggest weakness.

    AzureWave313

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    This is great. Thank you for sharing!

    RixxFett

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    Put this on Quora! Thank you!!! Im going to read the ebook right now! I needed this .

    Specific_Hunter9251

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    I loved this. It is true. thanks for this.

    gipsee_reaper

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    Glad to see this... Really😌✨

    Several_Albatross404

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    This pretty much describes me perfectly.

    Thick-Ad857

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    Damnit, I hate reading such harsh realities so early in the morning.  Probably needed that...

    WholeNewt6987

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    This hit hard.

    kittenj8

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    This slapped me in the face thanks

    kanaan-1

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    I've been postponing shit I know everything about since 2023 September, 😭😭💔

    qarry-jay-77

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    Thanks. You hit me spot on!! Appreciate you!

    Illustrious_Gift5445

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    this hit hard

    Primary-Economy9201

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    WoW !! Words of wisdom, truly moving. Brain is keeping away from action and safely away from failure is the takeaway for me.

    lampshadesforyou

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    Love this always said this to myself. Gotta be a “do-er”.

    4CTIVE98

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    Thanks for this!!

    DazzlingFill4907

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    Thank you sir, I needed this today and for the rest of the year and possibly my life. Take care out there and good luck with life!

    WhyamIhere-621

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    This is amazing.

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    As Nike puts it: Just do it:) Thank you for this share.

    Live_Board-3892

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    Needed this

    bluesydragon

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    Well said

    Top_Cod_7382

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    This . Thank you Ryder. I used to get stuck in Analysis Paralysis. You have
    to think it through once. Doing it multiple times throughout the day is
    a sign of fear. Fear has killed more dreams than failure has.

    DistrictFew7421

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    Thx for this!

    Sveno015

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    Nice one sir

    Ancient_Sea4117

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    Wow. This is my problem why I can't get a job. You nailed it!

    himasaltlamp

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      This is so true.

      Abhinav3183

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      Thank you.

      Mental-Sun745

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      Interesting perspective.

      Sumo_Cerebro

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      Needed this, thank you

      Cecilitta

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      Batman walks into the room.

      cocotrom

    • ★★★★★

      Love this

      Specialist_Chip270

    • ★★★★★

      i really needed this . we keep waiting for the right moment and we forgot that this right moment may never come . to be the person u want u
      have to k i l l the person u are 👀

      marame19

    • ★★★★★

      I needed this message so much right now. Thank you.

      Imaginary-Use914

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      needed this.

      Kooky-Garage4238

    • ★★★★★

      Insightful, also interesting to read how how many other people go through the exact same thing.

      KiwiPrestigious3504

    • ★★★★★

      You literally just described me the past two years. I'm stuck in a huge
      rut and realize and know this, yet I can't stop myself. Insanely
      frustrated and disappointed in myself.

      vaporgaze2006

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      Just wanted to say reading this gave me the extra push I didn’t realize I needed today. I’ve been caught in that exact loop: over-researching, over-planning, convincing myself I’m “working on it” while nothing actually moves forward. That line about anxiety disguised as responsibility hit hard. It’s true... perfectionism has been my favorite excuse.

      Holly_Ducharme

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      this really called me out. I’ve been getting ready for way too long instead of just doing it.

      TheblackNinja94

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      Good post, I disagree with some nuances but those are just language fragments.:)

      mrtoomba

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      So f*cking true

      Royal-Crazy2112

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      Thank you for this

      RideLogical6858

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      I needed this message today!

      Immediate-Floor595

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      This hits just at the right moment.

      Th3R00ST3R

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      Love this!

      kittybunnydolly

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      Ugh I loved reading this, beautifully put my friend. This is absolute truth, and painful to watch and or experience.

      Electronic-Green2884

    • ★★★★★

      Well said!

      HybridHealthCoach

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      Thank you. 🩵

      honestanonymiss

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      I needed this.

      Captain_Bagels

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      One of my favorite posts ever. Exactly how i feel about it but you wrote it down better then i could 😉

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      Came across this at just the right time.

      Agressive_Choice545

    • ★★★★★

      It’s very true!

      Justaguyatburbank

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      Thank you for giving me encouragement to finally go and rob a bank. Thank you! 🙏

      Screwbedo

    • ★★★★★

      So real , thank you

      SenpaiHerSelf

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      very informative. I wonder how delusional beliefs our mind makes to shift the burden of pain into future.

      Inevitable_Kiwi_4096

    • ★★★★★

      I remember reading that previous post of yours a few days ago. Really insightful. Still understand your point with this one too. It’s
      straightforward so those who don’t get it are just finding something to be critical about.

      Minimum-Special1502

    • ★★★★★

      Well said.

      Frequent-Damage-5282

    • ★★★★★

      Thank you so much for this. The part when you said that uncertainty isn't a bug in the system, uncertainty is the entire point... That for me was the eye opener, so thank you so much.

      Eggz-Avocado-Toast

    • ★★★★★

      Well said. Planning has its place but nothing replaces action. Start messy, adjust as you go

      Legitimate-Total9312

    • ★★★★★

      "Your mind learned that researching, planning, and organizing
      gives you the same dopamine hit as actually doing the work, but without
      any of the risk."

      Hit the nail on the head. Thanks for this, it was very insightful.

      Quasars92

    • ★★★★★

      Super insightful!

      Yami_Dancho

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      You are so right, fam

      natkov_ridai

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      That was inspiring dude.

      JackJack_Jr

    • ★★★★★

      Well put!

      SuckItEasy718

    • ★★★★★

      Thank you for sharing

      nightmare4280

    • ★★★★★

      I love this!

      Enatangled_CNM

    • ★★★★★

      A lot of truth to this.
      Thank you for sharing.

      SeattleBrother75

    • ★★★★★

      Thank you Ryder, so very much from the bottom of my soul. I needed to read this today

      Relative_Back_4847

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      This hit home :(

      Several-League2660

    • ★★★★★

      Love this, thanks for sharing

      klaroline1

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      I'm getting this book today! That was damn good information. Now, excuse me while i print this and put it on my wall. :)

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